“Is He My Soul Mate?”
“Is He My Soul Mate?”
If you are asking yourself the question, “Is he my soul mate?” then chances are, a part of you hopes that the answer is a resounding, “Yes!” Just the fact that you are considering the question means that there is some intangible quality pulling you toward him.
Take a moment to consider what factors led you ask, “Is he my soul mate?” Is it his kind gestures? Is it the way he respects your goals and life purpose? Maybe it’s the way you feel when you are next to him. Perhaps it’s a deep-down gut feeling that this could be your moment – the moment you always knew would arrive.
The only way that you can truly answer the question, “Is he my soul mate?” is to continue moving forward with him. Take it to the next level within yourself. I don’t mean ask him flat-out or even drop subtle hints… I mean show your commitment that he is your soul mate. Experience each moment – with him and away from him – as if the answer to that question is a crystal-clear “Yes.” You’ll begin to see some astonishing results.
Here’s the thing I’ve learned about soul mates. Throughout the years as I have taught people how to attract their soul mates, I’ve observed that waiting for the other person to claim soul mate status is not the way to find true love. The decision must start within you: the proclamation that you are ready to be loved 100% as you are for who you are. This is a critical step that so many people overlook or simply skip, only to find themselves wondering where it all went wrong.
So that fact that you are asking, “Is he my soul mate?” is a wonderful thing! It’s a huge step forward from asking “Why do I keep dating the same guy in a different package?” or worse – “Why do I keep dating the wrong guy?” A shift has taken place within your spirit and brought this potential partner into your life (or back into your life). This is a living, breathing example of the powerful Law of Attraction.
The Law of Attraction is now part of mainstream culture. People are waking up to the fact that they are creating their lives with their thoughts. A few years ago, you may have asked yourself again and again, “What’s wrong with me? Why do I attract people who are dishonest or who don’t understand me?” While self-reflection is a good starting point, it’s critical to switch gears away from negative thought patterns (“What’s wrong with me?”) to positive though patterns: “I am so fabulous! I am ready to attract my soul mate and I believe that he will be everything I’ve dreamed of in a partner and then some!” Say the latter statement out loud; can you feel the energy rise?
Now, getting back to the question “Is he my soul mate?” Stating this as a question sends out a vibration of uncertainty. I suggest that you switch gears again and take it to the next level: “I am attracting my ideal soul mate with every action and thought.” In making this change in the way you frame your thoughts, you have nothing to lose but doubt.
Remember that dating is temporary. You will move to a new phase beyond wondering if this is “the one.” The answer to that question “Is he my soul mate?” will not come from outside, from your friends’ assessments, or even from your partner’s statements. It all starts with you.
Frank Polancic – The Soul Mate Guy
Filed Under: Frank's Blog
March 10th, 2009
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